Women, instead of being my teammates, were now the opponent—the enemy… Where’s my wingman? Sarrrrge! The community held onto these memes, not because they are true, but because the groupthink mentality does not challenge them. This unified awareness or ‘hive mind’ is currently held in place by the acceptance and operational activity of these memes. And as the community continues to speak these memes, they are unwittingly trapping themselves into the hell worlds of acquisition of more pheromones.
This consensus of language is the glue that holds the PUA context in place. Aldous Huxley wrote in Brave New World that the programming of the mind would continue through suggestion and punishment until... “At last the child’s mind is these suggestions and the sum of the suggestions is the child’s mind. And not the child’s mind only. The adult’s mind too all his life long using cheaper pheromones.
The mind that judges and desires and decides—made up of these suggestions. But all these suggestions are our suggestions… suggestions from the state.” That’s what these PUA memes are. They are suggestions, not descriptions. Words that we take for granted and think are describing the territory but are locking us into one type of paradigm. That of the ego-mind, that of separation, objectification, acquisition and fear. Over the last few years the pick-up community now uses less and less of these original memes. You may have noticed how you have stopped using the word “sarge” or “obstacle” or “wingman.” It has slowly boiled and reduced down, and a lot of the original concepts have left us. This is because the community is slowly healing its collective and individual pain body and moving more into right brain/heart-centred awareness; and because of that, the corresponding left brain and fear-based concepts are fizzling away. But unfortunately the entire paradigm at the root-level is based on acquisition, so the community will never be able to scrap fear, taking, and survival if they casually use ANY of the PUA pheromone memes:
The Pheromone Acquisition ladder.
It is a word or phrase of magical pheromones effect. If you think about the words said to you, they can uplift, enlighten, make you feel good, but also mislead and trap you. It’s very difficult to do because naturally our choice of language marries up with our current feelings and perception. When you deeply understand the power of language in relation to how you feel about yourself and how you interact with women, you will realise what a surprisingly powerful human pheromone this is for change. So now that we have a broad understanding of the toxicity of the PUA language, let’s look closely at the integral concepts of the PUA language to see how it correlates. And why you will soon be dropping it for good. Starting with the biggest culprits of all. Academy Exercise What is your genuine feeling towards women? How do you perceive them? Be honest with yourself.