i was skeptical at first about puttin my life on the internet for people to read, hence why there hasn't been a post from me. but i figure wot the hell.. wots the worst that can happen huh?? I notice subtle changes that have happened in me, i'm smilin like a cheshire cat all the time.. i'm a heppy lively dude.. but guess wot no women.. i still have that AA bullshit i cant get over.. i get pheromones from women but i become all shy n shit about it that i just bottle it n lose out on the oppertunity.. Why is this??
i've read many pheromone journals from you guys and one thing i notice is that it helps to write down how u feel n stuff.. so...
i aim to keep this as a log to aid me in my journey to becoming a better man.. but to date from joining this site and learnin sum stuff i've done ZERO approachs.. dam..!
this seems like an essay already lol.. so i'd appreciate some advice from you guys on how to better my game.. any input, criticism woteva is welcome.
About 5 months ago or so I started becoming very good with girls and social pheromones situations. Girls were coming to me from every direction and everything started flowing smoothly. I was confident and proud. And then I fucked this one very cute girl and slowly over the period of two months we ended up in a pheromones relationship.
About 3 weeks ago, we decided to break up since she was leaving to go back home and long distance was not really an option. Overall, it was a very loving, clean relationship and there's very little about it that I remember in a negative light regarding human pheromones.
Regardless, now I am back to being completely single again, having lost touch with all the girls I was hanging out back then. And I suddenly feel like I have lost a lot of confidence and social skill. I can't even maintain eye contact properly. What is worse, I don't enjoy social pheromones situations or girls much any more!
Please give me some pointers as to where to start with human pheromones. I'm thinking of making a very solid effort to make and maintain eye contact with women, and ignore the posssibility that they might think I'm a creep.
In fact, I think this has become quite an issue for me: I don't want to act like a creep so I've become very passive.
Any other ideas? I've never been good at talking to women at bars and clubs. I really prefer coffee shops, school, and other every day situations.