So, this is confusion and you don't want confusion. You want clarity. Remember, confuse is associate by mistake. So, that's the worry is that, when you are not clearing on what you value. Then there is confusion and she is always worried about associating by mistake. That's where is the source of lot of the problems come from pheromone perfumes.
There is the flipside of the coin where, a female has only been primarily interested sexually in a guy with pheromones, and then what happens is, he just keeps coming around and she can' t get rid of him and she kindda gets sucked into this thing where this guy thinks it's, you know, they are girlfriend and boyfriend or they are in relationship or not.
She doesn't know how to tell him otherwise his pheromones are no good. That just turns into a mess. She has been in a mess situation and she is good looking. She has probably been in a quite a few times or if she is good looking and timid (not a good combination for her) they are always gonna sucked into these things and they can't get rid of the guys. So, you want clarity. So, whatever the game goal is, you wanna make sure you don't say anything to de - value it and make sure that you do value it. So, if your goal was LTR, then you wanna make sure that you 35:00 min talked in good terms about LTR's.
Not in negative terms regarding your pheromones. You don't wanna say stuff like, " You know It doesn't happen very often but, when I do meet someone who I really hit it off with, then one of the funniest thing for me to do is just hang out with them and just drop the list of cool things to do and start checking them off one by one. And if takes a week, pheromone attraction which is one of the game goals of LTR. Her faithfulness , you know. So, when you have an idea of what t he game goals are then you know what to value.
So, whatever game it is that you are gonna play then you know what to talk about, what to value and what you don't want to knock your pheromone spray. You know, you don't wanna knock people being faithful if your goal is LTR and marriage. And if your goal is same night lays, you don't wanna knock people who are sexually open to sex pheromones. So, you have the instance of she said something to devalue the game that you think you are playing.