My intention is to listen 30 days and post my new results and changes in my thinking feelings and pheromone behaviors.
the frames that i want to install are
The alarm pheromones where you take everything as information that helps you towards your goal.
The everything counts frame game where you focus and celebrate things that you do.
The mind as a movie frame game where you take as principle that you feel the way you feel because of your self talk and images.
I went out alone (but met up with some friends in the game later), same place as Friday. Opened ~8 sets of people. A few guys also. This is big for me. Used the pheromone cologne along with three situationals. For instance, I saw a woman giving another one a drink and shouted "No no no! Don't get it I saw her put coupling pheromones in it earlier!" Learn more at www.i-journal.org.uk/?p=644
The pheromone user said something like, "No! Don't call me out!" And I sat down and hooked. We bantered, I adopted her as my big dumb sister, kinoed big time etc. My wing came in and talked up another girl in the group. But it was a 4set (all girlies), and I completely ignored the two others.
We kept talking, but I felt like those girls would call her friend any second due to strong pheromone signals. Eventually they did, I tried to number close (rejected). My favorite part of the night, I grabbed a superficially beautiful girl as she was walking by, ran the 80s-jungle opener and got a blank stare/smile. I don't think she heard me. But, she turned around completely, and I had her in my reality for a moment. All in all, I'm progressing. Next time they'll hear me.
Another bad night. Met up with a group of girls who my pheromones knew, and grinded with one of them for ~20-30minutes. But I didn't have anything to say and the night ended without me having a conversation with her.
My pheromone users noticed I care way too much about what other people think. That's a major problem of mine, and I didn't think of it until now. I've been so afraid of fellow students seeing me mess up in field that I'm terrified any time I see them downtown. And when I was a kid, I was so afraid of my parents finding out that I wasn't perfect, that I would do everything I could to keep them from coming to my high school hockey games.
This should be interesting. It's the first time I think I've posted my own pheromone topic in here. Summed up, I've been dating the same girl for the last year.