Since then, I've not had intercourse. Yes, two years without sex pheromones. First time in my life that it occurs to me.
Since I've separated, I spent a year and a half living in different places, like a rolling stone... friends who were traveling and lend me their homes, even by periods living in my mother's house, in the room of my childhood and adolescence, which I think it hurts significantly my sense of freedom, my self esteem, my self confidence, my libido. Learn more about pheromones at llusharson8884.exteen.com/20150907/how-pheromones-make-me-feel
When I was invited here, never heard concepts like PUA and never knew about communities dedicated to it. But I found here much more.
And thanks to casually watch The Pheromones Method (not my way, but I've seen many interesting things on it) and Masculine Power of Mark Manson, I’ve start to focus my problems from another perspectives of pheromones.
Just a few months ago, after getting a proper place, I returned very slowly to recover motivation, going out -a little-, chatting with some girls, flirting, seduction ... but at the moment of truth, or I chickened out, or become timid, or leave the place or situation, or start to think nonsense things because she has 40 and is very old (I prefer youngers), or is 19 and I find it VERY young, or has 30 but blah, or anything happens less than physical contact, intimacy , empathy, sex. Excuses.
Learn at www.kiwibox.com/nicolascas/blog/entry/133518037/pheromones-are-powerful/
You recommend me in my previous thread many readings, audios, videos, which little by little I’m integrating with my thoughts and ways of acting, so I wanted to open this thread to make a report of this strange moment in my life, in which I hope to feel free, uninhibited, alpha, and enjoy this life without repressions and restrictions of pheromone usage.
If all goes well, I'll tell you in this thread about the return to myself, my new approaches, my new relationships, my conquests and my experience. Think of the word "rejection".. What are they rejecting? The experience that you want to share with them.
But why should that hurt you? Does their rejection of the experience you have to share say that what you have to share isn't good enough..?
Do you need them to feel full, to feel giddy and joyful, to feel perplexed with intimate emotions? <-- I wager the answer is no, because all of those feelings come from inside of you
When you are thinking from the frame of rejection, you are deriving all of those wonderful feelings with the person that could have given them to you.
Rather than doing that, you need to re-frame it to think of those feelings as always present and available inside of you for you to enjoy..
Another thing to understand is that the other person is in their own beliefs, they have their own stories, they are living their own life.. What you have to offer them is just not what they want to experience in that moment - it's not calibrated to their reality.. They don't connect to you.
Another type of rejection is someone waving you away like you're a pest in their life - like you have no value. - Should this hurt your feelings?