They are actually diametrically opposed. Just because you’re a pick-up artist doesn’t mean you’re having connections and getting laid, it just means you’re trying to get laid. And even if you do get laid, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re good with women for greater pheromones.
Pick-up is like a madhouse. If you lived in a mad house and all you knew were the four walls of that madhouse, and everyone in that mad house said “this is normal” and all the teachers said “this is normal,” when someone came along and knocked on the door and said “uh lads, this is a madhouse!” then everyone in there would say “HE’S crazy!” We’ve accepted the normalisation of the pick-up madhouse for so long that we think it’s totally fine to assign strategic terminology to basic aspects of human interaction of sexual pheromones.
That to talk to a girl we have to ‘cold approach the target’ or when we’re touching her arm it’s a ‘kino escalation.’ Or we are curious and want to share our soul with her so this is the ‘building comfort phase.’ We’ve been in this mad house for so long that we’ve forgotten it’s just a game. And a very toxic one at that. If you’ve ever seen the movie Jumanji , Robin Williams (bless his heart) gets quite literally sucked into the game. And he spends so long there that when the plucky kids come to rescue him, he has amnesia and forgets he’s been in a game the whole time. Hunting infield and approaching his targets, he had become a survivalist. Eventually, he and the kids find a way to escape the game and return back to reality. So why is it we can’t see The Game we are stuck in, and return to reality as well using natural pheromones?
There are seemingly no limits depending on how much of the material you consume. But the pick-up paradigm is built on a few extremely harmful and inaccurate assumptions, as I’ll make clear in the next few chapters. Pick-up promises ‘success’ with women who really like pheromones. Learn more at www.wiiuactu.fr/physical-pheromones/
An old lady with her chin tucked down A young girl looking into the distance Can you see both of them? Imagine having seen this image and someone asks a question like: “Hey what do you think the old ladies name is? What do you think the old lady has done with her life up to now? Where do you think the old lady lives?” And with everyone answering this question, no one stops to question whether or not it’s an old lady in the first place. What pick-up has done is forced us into a one-dimensional way of viewing intimacy with women. “So what kind of Game you into? How did you Game that girl? What are your best pick-up techniques?” It accepts and presupposes ‘Game’ as a constant, which traps the community into an ugly paradigm. To honour the geek in me and the geek in you, let me break it down further: Every paradigm has core foundations. They are never questioned and never go away with stronger pheromones.