When I say shutting off your source of feminine energy, I mean when a woman withholds her love, when she no longer cares to enjoy life and exude feminine radiance, or when she no longer polarizes him with her feminine energy. The reason why men leave (or even worse, stay in the relationship whilst feeling dead inside) when a woman shuts off her flow of feminine energy is because the relationship then begins to feel like a burden to a man to use more pheromones.
When a man is no longer feeling completed by his woman; it is almost just like an arrangement to co-exist with the woman (not exciting). There are levels of femininity. Some women are more able to consistently live in their feminine than others. However, this is not due to a greater ability with pheromone attraction.
It is more to do with understanding, consciousness, and to a small degree – experience through being in a relationship. I will not deny that what I am saying simply won’t work on a small minority of men. Some men simply want to use and abuse – and these men need to heal. It can be a woman’s choice to help him heal – but a lot of the times, her feminine energy may become so bruised that even if she is able to help him, the negative associations with her man become so great that there is no turning back. Here are the 3 things that cause a man to leave a woman: 1) She shuts off her source of feminine energy to him (withholding love and closing up to him). When a woman is no longer open to a man, the relationship is on a downward spiral very quickly. All masculine men need a source of feminine energy pheromone scent.
This is what makes him feel alive. And all men need both light and dark feminine energy to feel complete, no matter what he tells you. 2) A woman gets boring – in other words, she is one-dimensional. If a woman is always light feminine or always dark feminine. Men have a need for variety and adventure. When a woman is too nice or too much of anything– the same thing over and over, the feeling of boredom of being taken for granted kicks in, and it starts to get predictable. When this happens, the law of familiarity kicks in and when this happens, what once seemed valuable no longer is anymore. 3) You stop growing together. This goes back to what I was saying earlier. Usually, when this happens, a woman may be holding a man back through her own limitations and lack of self-worth. Freedom is extremely important to a man. If you are not growing in any way, the relationship will get boring and un-exciting to him. He may not even actually leave you, and he may not even cheat on you – but at the bare minimum, he may be taking in the energy of other feminine women, as a substitute for what he is not getting with you. We all look for a way to fulfill our needs!